brownaddiction:

alaumei:

Perfect your confidence🍸

Alright let’s get down to business bitches. Confidence gets you into places, out of situations and gets you things. Keep in mind you are NOT going to be confident everyday, that is normal. You are going to have to work on your confidence until you are alive. But if you have gotten to the point where you have your mind set, you feel comfortable in your skin and are willing to gain confidence you CANNOT fail.

1. I’ve mentioned this before but FAKE IT TIL YA MAKE IT HOE. Believe you are confident in who you are and act accordingly until you actually start to genuinely feel it.

2. Stand straight, sit straight. Basically keep your back tall in every position. It makes you look like you know why you are here and what you are doing.

3. Walk with your head forward, back straight, shoulders down and at a regular pace ( a little faster than normal). NO ONE fucks with someone who walks determined I kid you not. If you have a face that show determination and projects as if you know what’s up you could say the most outlandish thing people will still believe you

4. Be kind, but witty. Be a bitch, but a kind bitch. Kind to everyone until someone oversteps you, that’s when you stop being kind and stop playing their games.

5. Wear things YOU feel comfortable in. Idk who says what. Something might look better than other things, but if you like it just wear it for god’s sake who cares.

6. Which bring me to my next point. DONT GIVE A FUCK once again just fake it. You can go home and cry about it later, but to their face dont even move a muscle. Here’s my rule: dont care about strangers thought, care about people who are extremely close to you. Thats that.

7. Dont ever compare yourself to other girls. Trust me on this: EVERYONE is insecure about something. I kid you not, everyone. Some people are just great actors about it. You can be too. Just dont compare yourself, move on, look at a painting, eat idk just take your mind off of it.

8. Just know that you are THAT BITCH at all time. Dont let people cross you, play with you or fuck around with you.

9. support others and their imperfections. Smile at girls around you. try to find something that you like about others around you, something small. it helps you to accept yourself, trust me.

10. don’t hang with people who make you feel less about yourself. there are so many people in this world, why just why spend time with people that lower your self esteem?