Don’t become a sex worker if you don’t want to have sex
“Any tips for bartenders who don’t want to serve drinks??”
“Any tips for hair dressers who don’t want to cut/style/wash/color/ or touch hair??”
Yup! There’s one fool proof solution/tip for all three of these questions – choose a different profession.
I really do have a high distain for questions like this. In no way, unless you’re a fucking Kardashian or Knowles-Carter, are you going to get money for a job without doing the main focus of said job.
YOU CANNOT. BECOME. A SUGAR BABY-ESCORT-STRIPPER/DANCER AND NOT BE NUDE OR BE INTIMATE IN SOME WAY WITH CLIENTELE. THAT IS LITERALLY WHAT MAKES THESE JOBS THE JOBS THEY ARE. You can’t drive without a car, you can’t swim without water, AND YOU CAN’T BE A
SUCCESSFULSEX WORKER WITH OUT PUTTING THE SEX IN SEX WORK.GET.
OVER.
IT.
There are SW fields that don’t require participating in sex, like stripping.
And technically there are platonic SBs, but most of them can’t generate enough income to survive.
Those that can are able to do so because they’re the top of top – the 1% (Kardashian, Victoria secret model level) who look flawless without effort, someone stunning enough that men will pay just to show her off (just as my boo @ladyclaudine22 explained).
Btw, this is also why I hate the influx of “aspiring SB” accounts.
I mean, it’s great to research a job before you jump in, but a lot of those so called “research accounts” don’t give any consideration to advice/tips. Instead, they post a constant stream of photos taken straight from the internet focusing on luxurious/expensive objects and places. They think that since they’re pretty, they can start out as a top earner with zero experience or research. – all because they’ve seen what successful sbs are capable of earning.
AMEN! And all these new girls think they can have a “platonic relationship” and make stacks… girl you’re either in or out. Yes, sometimes traditional escorts will get booked to get a massage from a lonely guy, but that doesn’t mean you can make a living like that. If you want your luxury life that you reblog, HUSTLE. If you don’t want to have sex with anyone then SEX WORK IS PROBABLY NOT FOR YOU. Yes, sometimes at the strip club we are paid for “company”, but most of the time it’s for getting naked. These girls are A. Getting themselves into situations they didn’t intend to be in because they aren’t educated about what they’re doing and B. Making it harder for legitimate sugar babies/ escorts/ SWs by filling the game with all their dumb idealistic bs
“These girls are A. Getting themselves into situations they didn’t intend to be in because they aren’t educated about what they’re doing and B. Making it harder for legitimate sugar babies/ escorts/ SWs by filling the game with all their dumb idealistic bs.”
This is so important I felt the need to include it twice. Unprepared girls trying to sugar make mistakes that will then turn their common, everyday life into a constant state of high risk. I saw a post from one “aspiring sb” where she mentioned that her first POT was on his way to pick her up for their first meet – FROM HER HOUSE. The first rule of safety in any SW field is “don’t be stupid.” She literally handed over the most personal information someone can give. Which means she selected the least safe option avaliable, which demonstrates the complete and utter lack of basic preparation or research. . Because guess what? If it doesn’t work out, now he can easily locate you to harass, rob, assault, or rape you.
And these girls are accepting allowances that are unacceptable because they don’t know any better. If a man can get a SB to sleep with him on the first date for a $50/week allowance and the cost of a fancy dinner, he’ll then expect the next SB to be willing to do the same. Which essentially destroys that man as a potential SD for the girls that actually make a living by sugaring.
$50/week? My BROTHER got more than that as his allowance from our parents when he was a 17 year old in technical university. Jesus. I’m pretty sure even outright prostitutes here charge more for a bj, let alone sex.
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